As another Lame Cherry exclusive in matter anti matter.
OK so it would seem the world is auditioning for pre natal Armageddon, and genocide and holocaust are now accepted policy, except if Hitler's name is involved, and I'm sitting here smiling about the note from PS, as we have entered the mystery of the 8 minute voice mail.
Message: Dear LC, Thanks for posts, so got 8min voicemail to respond to from a women I like but don't like enough, I miss danish girl, then there is de who I ended up talking to after 2years, I read the whole bible after meeting her the first time, what do?
Jeff Rense has on this fitness boob named Ted Broer who is the female version of the internet Jezebels who collect trinket men to string along. For some reason Rense just relishes listening to Ted's dating where Ted lines em up, chews em up and spits them out for not meeting the Ted Standard.
For the background on this, Ted had a Yes Darling Wife, who was hot, she died, and Ted compares all other women to her, so of course all other women are never going to match up. Ted is not looking for a relationship as he is hurting yet from his dead wife, as he jumped into dating like a horse out of the gate before the wife was really cold. No offense meant for Ted, but he is painful to listen to when you know the forensic psychology in this binge dating which is like binge drinking, unhealthy. For him it is not till death do us part, but until the pain departs, I'm still married to my wife and that wound is not going to heal until her faces that there was only one Sharon and to stop decking women for not meeting the Sharon standard which seemed kind of low in she let her husband get away with too much. Obvious there is problems as her son married her twin. Not a good idea in the connotations of that.
Ok, I will admit I'm sort of lost in the PS note, as I think we got 3 women in this plot. 8 VM, DG and someone named DE.
When I read that someone left an 8 minute voice mail, I thought, "Dude you really are on someones mind". So I should summarize in it sounds like you got 3 women, 8 MV who has made enough mistakes in life and figures you are the answer. Danish Girl is not thinking she is making any mistakes except not knowing the clock is running down to a time when she is going to figure out she made a mistake in waiting too long, and DE who thought she could do better and after 2 years is thinking you might be something of an insurance policy as she contemplates making more mistakes. I could of course be wrong as for some reason you were reading the entire Bible, if she had you doing this as a buffer to gain distance, 2 years did work.
I know I'm blunt, but I have been played by allot of people as I'm a trusting sort and was quite naive. I would never do the things other people do in playing people as it is wrong and you end up with someone you gamed, game runs out and overtime ends in divorce.
As it occurs to me, PS, let us work this from a different angle. Your angle.
Why do you miss Danish Girl? Think about it and why in the reasons. If you think you have a sound reasoning, you might tell her that you miss her and why. You could ask the hard question no one wants to get an answer to, in if she misses you like that, and if she doesn't you have your answer that she is never going to feel for you the way you do for her.
DE, you can read the Bible without her, so what can you do with her? The answer will be what your life with her will be, if you want that.
8 MV, what is it that you don't like enough about her? She seems to have both oars in the water for you.
I'm going to tell you something I heard on Oprah or some talk show. It was from a head doc or something and it went something like this, "A woman says, I like Jeff, but he just does not thrill me. But Steve, wow he really thrills me but I don't know if I can trust him". The doc said, Yes but Jeff is normal and Steve is a psychopath so maybe you should think about who is going to give a stable relationship.
Speaking for men, I can tell you that men want to be validated by a woman and to have them care for them. The reason men have affairs who are normal is women who break that bond. The reason men hang out in bars is to get away from harpies at home.
You have to look at these 3 women and see who is going to provide you what you need as a man. Don't think like a woman thinks that you are going to change a man once you are married. It does not work that way. What she is treating you like now is what a relationship is going to be.
I know the trap of meeting the parents, but if you get a look at what the parents are like with each other, you are going to get a look at what your spouse is going to fall back on under stress and treat you like.
All people are different. For TL and I, we are both alphas and I never would have thought I should be with someone who is strong and a match. God knows best and it works. Today we were out tearing down a barn, we have been moving stuff in the house, and in all of this, we are around each other most days 24 hours a day. Most people as the coof proved can not stand to be around each other that much. You have to know what you want in another person and know what they expect of you in being with you literally.
Only a few people have been told, but TL and I were married this past month. If you don't commit to better and worse, sickness and health, richer and poorer, then these 3 women are not right of you and you with God should be on that path to find the one. Even if 8 MV would do everything for you, if you could not respond, then it would be unfair to her. This has struck home with me in since I met TL, I have had contact with kids I grew up with, some I knew liked me, others only after I met them again like at my brother's funeral. It was tender contact and gentle. They would have given more than I could have given, so it would not have been right for me, even if they are fabulous people, meaning I could trust them yet with my life.
So God worked out our drama where it turns out that I could not simply be married, as God had other plans in using our wedding to help someone else who needed what only we could give. It is the kind of life I have with God. Only marriage I ever heard of that had a purpose of restoring someone else that God loves.
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Margaret Richard from Body Electric used to play this song and I loved it as the part where the girl is leaving a voice mail, and says she is going to come over and kick your a..............Margaret voice overs and says, "Story song", and laughs.
She really had some good tracks from that Miami sound
