It's better to want something you don't have, than to
have something you don't want.
As another Lame Cherry exclusive in matter anti matter.
Loved & laughed at the Notorious Bicycle post. Anyway going out & dating is expense maybe I'll meet someone right before/during civilizational collapse, sometimes I don't think I know jack or shit about women or anything. . but then I do your blog :)
The Lame Cherry is always ready to help all who approach the oracle of forever. I will now bestow a few realities as espoused by a kid TL and I know at the grocery who just got his nuts handed to him by some teenage creature already practiced in what women do best and that is destroying men.
Do not listen to Red Pill or that other shit out there in Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus. I can give you the short version here. I warn you to never use people in this.
OK, you probably remember that stupid Bee Gee's song, Stayin' Alive. Only Swedish brothers would sign that high and for that matter sing a line that makes one cringe in, "You can tell by the way I walk I'm a woman's man, no time to talk".
You probably have seen allot of really ugly, stupid, fat, old penises who have young creatures on a leash. They use their money to attract whores. Here though is what you do.
No this is not that stupid Mike Cernovich monkey boy shit either. You go Bee Gee even if those Swedes in little pants that shows they have no dicks in their Fruit of the Loom.
Women tell you what they want, Ginger on Gilligan's Island asked Mary Ann. "What is it what every woman wants?"
The answer is, "What another woman's got".
You really got all your information here now, but you probably have been so confused by stupid women who do not know what they hell they want, that the Lame Cherry will decipher this for you.
Let me ask you, "Who is your favorite actor?" Let's just save some time, and I will decide for you men. Your favorite actor is Bruce Willis, before he got vaxed and his brain went veg.
I'm telling you to go look up online for some free views, Bruce Willis on Moonlighting. You want a woman? You go play Dave.
There are allot of asshole men out there who insult women and get the psychos to play the game of emotional rape and the fight for domination. I'm telling you right now, you don't want that shit in a relationship or a marriage. You start being an adult and expect the other person to be an adult. You don't need a woman that needs minding or you are going to have trouble and you don't want a woman who is interested in raising a boy in man's body as she is weak.
Dave was a Bee Gee. What you have to project every moment of your life is confidence. Everyone is a dumb ass except me, so don't sweat it in being intimidated as everyone is afraid in that room, and that is why they are acting out like you want to puke from their smarmy attitude. You just be confident. Confident when you walk, confident when you sit, confident when you drive. You stop craning your neck at women as they get that shit all the time. You want a woman worth a damn, you better bring something that interests them.
Confident sitting alone is like James Dean playing with himself. A bunch of stupid kids think it is cool, but the adults think, "That fucking kid is a dumb shit".
You probably know how to talk. So you talk. I do it all the time. I use self deprecating humor. I am loud enough, people are laughing that I am interacting with, and others are always watching and listening. It is just me as I get bored as hell standing around with the other two leggers.
Here is an example of me. I was in the farm check out last week, and the gal doing her customer service schtick, and said, "There are allot of people buying those pet treats? Do you like them?"
Dead pan, I shot back, "Yeah I like them when I watch football".
She burst out laughing as I caught her off guard.
You just talk to people, all people. If they are fucking zombie, move on to someone not potato head. You will find people who will enjoy your banter as it breaks up their day. You will be surprised how many people are listening, enjoying the conversation as it is fun, and sometimes they actually start a conversation.
Another example is our grocery gets too much turnover, and we got this little girl in who was not too happy. I was pleasant to her, said please and thank you, and when she hurt her back, I made sure when she got back that I walked out of my way to ask her about how she was doing and told her we prayed for her. She was our friend after that.
Single males have a bit more hard time, because so many fuck heads are out there, who think that a woman talks to you, that she is going to meet in the parking lot for a blow job. You have to be more than Bee Gee Dave in you have to ask how people are doing and mean it, and take an interest. In not long, you are going to be the nice guy, but not the nice guy that women walk on and use, because you are confident.
I am not going to give you the pimp shit that men pull. Niggers hanging around with sports stuff pretending they are pros at sports. Sissy boys pretending they are fags with the girls, and not understanding when they get the girl alone that they get a hard on. All that shit is one time shit that ruins women who are just in the most part, really stupid when their buttons get pushed.
You now add John Wayne to your outlook you project. You do not treat women as fuck bags and you will not let women treat you as a door mat.
Bitches think they do not want an alpha male. Yes they do, they just kick like mares on a rope until they get used to a man they can not push around. As you roll around this mine field, you just remember that you keep moving and talking. You be fair to everyone. There are always snooty cunts out there. Ignore them and go talk to some friendly fat woman who will go home and masturbate to you. That is her world and you are in your world looking for someone you will get along with. Talking to all the women, irritates the hell out of the pretty women. Pretty women are some of the loneliest in the world. They settle and are miserable. They also got burned allot young.
OK so now you are confident and being respectful. Now you are going to smile. Yes you smile a great deal. You will be amazed how my smile and me jumping out of the way, gets other people to smile in just quick interactions in coming in and out of stores. Smile, be pleasant and be respectful.
Do not be the asshole standing in line frowning or complaining. Let someone ahead of you. When your time comes, be the nice person who says PLEASE and THANK YOU.
Remember you are practicing the roll you are in an everyone is watching you on that stage.
Now go places you like. Drinking at a bar is not a place you go to meet someone of substance. Does not matter if it is online. That is how I met TL. TL read this blog, thought I was not that impressive, someone said to give it a chance and TL started reading and we started talking. Amusing part is I thought TL was an old curmudgeon. I treated TL like I do everyone who does not have a chip on their shoulder. It worked out as we still never stop talking. We have in depth conversations all the time. That is us. What we are on the blog is what we are in real time. That is not for everyone, but when you are putting in time where people like your likes are around more, you are going to find someone of substance.
It used to piss me off to high heaven in my now dead brother who was fat and bald, how he thought he was a Don Juan. I kept suggesting women he should date. They were solid, people with a like past and none of them were ugly. His response was they were not good enough. So he tried hooking up with a blonde bim who was a real hose bag and she was just using a fat bald man. He got what he deserved as he had too many damn issues as a boy man that no woman would ever want.
You have to like what you like and you have to like yourself. Once you like things with passion in places where other people are, they respond to that reality. I know we had fun with the bicycle thing, but if that is something that interests you, you have to know that every fuck head on the planet pushes a bike around trying to fuck women. You got to be the guy who knows something about bikes, like fixing them, where the best service is, and some stories that are interesting. Just remember you are not the doormat who fixes bikes as some fuck head is banging her bones. Your attitude lets it be known that you will not be stepped on. In most cases, when you want a woman, you talk to everyone else and focus on them. The ones who are interested will radar find you as they are watching you.
Now do you want a woman who appreciates you helping some oldster load their bike or do you want a woman looking at your expensive bike and thinking if I smile at this dumb bastard he will take me to Spain where I can boff the Cabana boy.
You are confident. You are relaxed. You smile. You are not all the things that trigger a woman's bad experience.
I told TL something from the start. People decide in the first minutes if they are going to commit to a relationship or are moving on. You do the same thing. Do not ever make the mistake in changing your mind or talking yourself into someone. I have never been wrong on my first impressions and learned the hard way.
I do hope some of that helps. Act and become an adult male who will be respected. That is where it all starts. Move on from the majority of dip shits and game players to the people of quality. It becomes easier once you start moving in like circles as they weed out the culls for you.
Study a woman's eyes, not her body. They will tell you everything about her. Yes look a woman in the eye.
Nuff Said
agtG
